Goal Setting
Everything
achieved on earth was as a result of someone's set goal. from simple to complex
discoveries, from the world of art to the world of science, from common bicycle
to the plane you see today. When you don’t set goals then it means wishful
thinking. ‘’if wishes were horses beggars will ride’’. Is a popular adage we
all know about. When we wish it’s just like mirage that will never come to be.
when we talk about mirage we talk about something that appears to be but its
isn’t in reality. Take for instance when driving, from a long distance it’s
seems as if there is water in front, but when you get closer the sight of water disappears from the actual position of
your vehicle, people use words like ‘’ i wish i had the privilege, ‘’i wish
that house was mine. Wishful thinking never comes to existence, if it does ask
the beggar on the street if they would still have time to beg. ask the labourer
who works all day trying to survive if he would still go out in search for a
job. We must develop the habit of setting goals.
A goal is an objective or a purpose we set in
order to achieve our target. when we talk about goal we talk about clear and precise
vision for achievement. No one stumbles into success without a goal. A dream is
just a dream, but a goal is a dream with a plan and a deadline. Ask yourself if
what you do today is getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow. Check
out your friends and the call you receive daily. Are they drawing you to your
goals? Change your friends but don’t change your goals. The places you visit,
the books you read, your phone contact, the television or radio program you
listen to are they drawing you closer to your goal.
A boy was
asked what he did love to be in the nearest future, he said ‘’I want to be a
doctor’’. So what are you plans in achieving it. ‘’ I don’t have any plan for
now’’. Do you read science related books. ‘’ no I don’t, but I read art related
courses often’’. A boy of this nature can never be a doctor. He would only be
dreaming.
Debby built
a nice house in the town, finally her dream had come true. she would no longer
spend money on transportation to work any longer. She began to be a lot more
early to work like never before, so one day the boss decided to ask her Debby
you come to office much earlier now unlike before how come about that. ‘’ yea i
just finished my house and I now live there, I mean the house closer to the
town’’. Wow the boss exclaimed, and went further to ask her how she was
successful and she said ‘’ I had to set realistic goals like removing 20% from
my salary, borrowed money from my brother, sold my car and some other things
that was not that useful to me, and that was how I got enough money to complete
this house’’. That’s the use of goal setting, if she only wished for the house
to be completed am sure the house would have still remained like the way it
was. For you to become successful in that field you have to work toward that
direction that would lead to success in that field. If you work opposite then
you would only get a different result. Goal setting is like the step by step
process we take in other to get want we want.
Take for
instance A man decides to travel to Italy from korea the next day. His goal
setting would be to wake up in the morning, he must have boarded a flight may
be the day before his trip to Italy, take his bath, put on his cloths neatly dressed
he heads for the airport, he then gets to the airport he doesn’t just say ‘’
well I am now at the airport, I would follow any plane I see’’, he would simply
sit quietly for the announcement of his own schedule plane for Italy, when it
is his turn he gets into the plane, he arrives at the airport, lets assume he
doesn’t know where he is going to, he would have to call the person he is going
to see in Italy, he would say something like ‘’ hello just arrived Italy, I am
beside belgin airline 707 I am putting
on a dark suit. All this details come to play so the person that’s coming to
pick him would not suffer much inconveniences. now from the first process of
boarding a plane in Korea till he gets to his destination in Italy is his goal
setting. You can’t just sit at a place and expect your goals to come look for
you. Life is but a place of wishes without making plans. Goal setting helps us
to plan on a long run. Some organization plan how they want to look like 10 to 15 years
from now.
10 years
from now What type of house do you want to live in, how many rooms should it be
should it be a bungalow or a duplex, how many children do you plan to have,
what position do you want to hold in your place of work, I want to own a car,
what kind of car do you want to own, what model, what income level do you want
to attain. When you start to strategize in accordance with what you plan to
have that is goal setting. ‘’if you fail to plan, you have planned to
fail’’. The best way to set goals is to
give it a time plan, given it that time would push you into action from today
until it comes to reality. If your goal are not definite and precise it keeps
reoccurring in the future as a result of procrastination of what can be done
now.
Note this No goal is worth achieving without
writing it down on paper. When we write our goals on paper it becomes a vision
there is a strong force attached to writing. A man without vision is a man with
no future, he is equal to a dead man yet still walking.
Sitting
quietly inside my room one afternoon, an idea flashed on my mind why not you
write a book i quickly picked up a piece of paper and wrote down the title of
the book and the procedures that would be used to ascertain a properly and
successful written documentation. When i did that as if by a stroke of some
sort of invisible force which i cannot explain i began to write.
Writing down
plans or ideas is such a powerful tools for achievement.
Your vision
is your tomorrow that you have not attained but hope to attain in the near
future.
Without a
vision in life, you are as good as dead, you are like a man navigating the sea
of life but blindfolded.
You cannot
make it in life without a vision.
‘’ where
there is no vision the people perish’’. You cannot go farther than your vision
can carry. God saw the whole universe through a vision before he created it.
Before your
vision can become a reality, there must be a concrete plan. For any vision to
survive the visioner must have a prior idea as to what he is aiming at.
When we have
vision without setting goals to reach forward to them is like building a house
without an architectural design.
When we set
goals we become definite, if you don’t set goals then i means you can settle
for less, you hear people say ‘’ i had expected more than this, but since i
have no option may be its fate that i should accept’’. defitness of purpose
makes you focused without settling for less in life until you get what you
want.
I was
outside on a cool Saturday morning, when a small boy of two years walked up to
me and showed me the money the dad gave to him. he gave me the money to hold
and came back later to collect his money i stretched my hands into my pocket and gave
him five times what he gave me but he
refused and insisted i gave him the exact money the dad gave to him before
living the house. What an innocent but definite child, he wanted nothing more,
or nothing less than what he was given.
If we all
become definite in our carrier, aspirations, goal we could achieve anything.
He wouldn’t
listen after much persuasion and so i gave him his 10 cent and he left for the
shop happily.
A goal setter is a goal getter
A dream is
just a dream , A goal is a dream with a deadline.
You must
learn to set goals, because it is not enough to dream.
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