33 QUALITIES YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR IN A PARTNER.

1. A strong sense of self: you must be with someone who knows whom they are.
2. Honesty : in order for your relationship to survive you must put on honesty.
3. Joy : To survive through life you must be happy to be with someone who makes happy.
4. integrity :you must be with a person you rspect.
5. Accountability : the person must have to be there for you all the way.
6. Sense of humour: As long as hey know how to laugh at life you will be fine being with them.
7. Strength : You need someone to hold you up whenever you feel  weak.
8. The ability to trust others :Life requirs trust for each others. so look for people who you can trust.
9. Maturity : A relationship needs matured mind not babies.
10. Compatibility from start : someone you are really comfortable with that you can work together in harmony and peace.
11. Independence :you must be independent
12. Commitment :a relationship cannot grow if yuo do not take it seriously. you must be serious to make it grow.
13. Vulnerability ; You cannot be close to someone who doesnt let their walls down.
14. Ability to argue in a productive way : you can argue but let it be based on a productive one. let there be profit or something important that is learnt from every argument.
15. Humiliy : Everyone makes mistakes so be willing to accept mistake and be humble enough to learn from them. do be proud to admit you are wrong, embrace your mistakes and learn to say sorry.
16. Openess : do be secretive. if you are secretive your partner will loose trust and confidence in you because they will not know what you are up to.
17. Selflessness : you mut be willing to share if you want a relationship to last for so long.
18. Affection : Always remind each other for the love you have for each other.
19. Self awareness : you must be able to notice yourself when you go wrong.
20. Empathy :even if they technically cannot understand what you are going through, they should be able to comfort you and understand the emotions you are feeling.
21. Flexibility : you must be able to blend. understand each other and tolerate each other flaws.
22. Dedication to family : whether is a parent , brothers, sister or any family member there must be some kind of close rapport between you and them. this helps to bind the family together.
23. Forgiveness : learn to forgive one another. do not hold grudges as it will deprive you from giving or getting help when necessary.
24. Open Mindedness : you must be open to new ideas instead of becoming to rigid. this help the relationship to better grow.
25. Awareness when not to cross the line : everyone have when they joke and when thy become serious. you must be able to figure out when your partner is in the mood for a thing or not.
26. Faithfulness : you must be faithful. avoid cheating on your partner when you have the chance or opportunity to so he or she does not do the same.
27.  Unconditional Love : be willing to dispatch and get love in return without a condititon attached to it.
28. A bility to communicate : communication matters a lot in any relationship or any thing we do in life. learn to communicat effectively with each other and watch the relationship move to the next level.
29. A healthy dose of insecurity : You want to be with a human being not a super hero.
30. Sexual attraction : you must dress in a way that will attract each other sexually.
31. Curiousity : You must be very inquisitve most especially when it is called for.
32. Loyalty : be loyal. be ready to fight for each other and at all times.
33. Ability to enjoy simple pleasures : you must do that thing which makes you forget all the pain and sorrow of yesterday. have time for pleasure. visit a resturant, an eatry, a gym or some sport center for fun purpses.

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