5 REASONS PEOPLE PREFER MALE CHILD TO FEMALE.


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Why Prefer Male To Female
Africa constitute 54 countries and its Original inhabitant are blacks race. they are called blacks because of their color. 
Africa is the second largest continent after Asia and is located South of Europe and Asia. it has a population density of around 1.,269,290,185 as of  9:47am on 28/11/2017 (live report) of which 25 percent are Nigerians.
Africa is a rich diverse continent with thousands of different tribe leaving together. 
The largest country in the Land of Africa is Nigeria with over 500 languages while the smallest country in Africa is Seychelles.
Far from the title. there is absolutely no reason to prefer any gender over the other. we were all created with great strength and equal opportunities and I stand for women. so male preference over female portrays un- civilization.
Why Africans prefer Male to Female offspring which is going to be the center of our discussion.

Why Are There Gender Inequalities In Afria?
firstly. generally people have that ideaology that the male counterpart is better off than the female. could that be traced to creation? 
When God said to Adam Out of thy Ribs made I a woman or could it be our insinuation? the issue of Gender inequality is a world wide problem that deserves emergency attention. it is not restricted to Africa alone. it is rather known as a global issue that must be addressed.
When you visit Europe they say ''every one has equal right'. be you a male or  a female but let the truth be told these people still have it locked between their mind that Male are better than Females. the only difference between them and Africa is the much emphasis Africa place on it.
 this topic is best suited for Africa because of its high rate. It is like this in Africa because of the following reasons.

Point number 1.
 Her Name changes after Marriage :
 it is nothing new to see the name of a female child whipped off ones after marriage, She goes by the title ''Mrs Harry(Husband's name) no longer Christine James (Father's name). at this point her name changes to that of the husband and the father described as a '' lost name''.  this change makes most Africa in general to see Female children as someone's else property, not theirs.
couple of times you hear parent say things like '' she's married now, so she is not a hundred percent my child any longer''. 
This has been of a great adverse effect to the female folks when it comes to ''sharing family property''.
years ago i met a couple who were planing to split the household property and excluding their female children with this reason ''if i give her a share of this, her husband will benefit from it. this people fail to understand that she is still a child in the family no matter who she is married to.

Point number 2. 
She doesn't deserve it : 
She doesn't deserve it. why? because she is a female. no one ever choose from which gender they come from. its a product of nature and the supernatural power beyond our control. this parent generally do not put this into consideration and so she is made to suffer her fate.

Point number 3. 
Not Exposed :
 The environment we live in has such a great life changing stories in our lives. those who still have this kind of ideology of male being better than females is as a reason of not being exposed. one of the price you have to pay for success is exposure. when you are exposed you get a panoramic view of life. not one sided. in my own terms i can simply refer to this as education.
People do not really have a broader view on what education presents itself to be. Education in a broader perspective is no more than being exposed to a way of life that is not within your original environment.
There is no such greater definition of education other than being exposed. it is practical, the schools and colleges we attend is not just for its academic routine but to learn how to mingle and tolerate one another even when the condition seems unfavorable.
if these set of one sided thinking individuals had the opportunity to travel out of their environment to some other different from theirs they would finally come to a balance in understanding.
i had the opportunity to eat the food i had never eaten before. prior to that time i had this strong believe that its not worth eating. 
why did i draw that conclusion probably because i don't know how it taste and because others say so. i was so surprised the day i had a taste of it . it was amazingly delicious and at the instance my negative ideology got washed up. it was then i understood that you don''t judge by colors neither by look. 

Point number 4. 
A weaker Specie :
 Most people refer to women as a weaker specie. they are all right because even the holy scriptures said so. but does this strait stand as an enough reason to deny them of their right? of course not. it ought not to be so. we must give women a chance. A chance of equality. they should be given love , care and Respect. for crying out loud no matter how muscular you as a man can be, you are undeniable the product of a Woman bosom.
I do not speak to African alone, i speak to the world. let them have the full right life offers its citizens. right to vote and be voted for, right to marry whom they prefer, right to education, right to contest for any position they aspire for. doing this would mean making this world a better place.

Point number 5.
Kitchen Material : 
Men say ''her place is in the kitchen''. they tell you she doesn't deserve to go out. she should be all day available for kitchen routine, this is the most wrong idea of the century and therefore should not be imbibed by classical men. if you want to be a man of classic then you must wain this kind of mentality. 
Anyone can cook. statistically it has been proven that men do have better cooks than women. so why restrict her to the kitchen when you are better of than her in cooking.
Give Them the chance, you never know where the change might come from.

What other factors do women face today? please drop your comment and lets deal with the topics. do share until Women be free from Silent Slavery. 


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