5 TIPS TO BOOST YOUR LIFE

Do you have a purpose in life? this path would help you find it. the-path-to-uncovering-life-of-purpose.

The Pillar Of Influence

Positive thinking  is a mental attitude in which you expect good and favorable result or condition at all times.                        

These are the 5 Influencer to a Positive Life

 (I)BOOKS : 

The more you read, the more things you will know. The more you learn, the more places you will go.  The books you read have a great impact on your subconscious being, whether you come to believe it or not. you tend to act in a manner of what you come in contact with everyday. 

You can read the books of men who failed, learn from their failures so you wouldn’t have to go through that same path. 

there is no wisdom in repeating your father's mistakes or the mistakes of others. instead of falling where others did the same i think it would be more cheaper to learn from them.                                                                                                        

  I read a book and it changed my thought spontaneously, faster than I could imagine, some others have done the same and it changed them too. You can also develop that habit so you can transform your thinking and get a better result. 

(II) What You See :                                                                                                                                               

What you see every day is a symbol of what you become, if you watch people who fight every day, there is a tendency you would want to do exactly the same if not today probably some other day. here is a perfect illustration on what that means.

There was a soldier who under cared about the affair of his son. Jake was fond of gun movies, dad was so obsessed with his career that he forgot the role of a father in child upbringing. He felt movie was the best thing he could offer his son.  he never had time to think of the effect of such movie in the life of his three year old, so one day daddy came in and found Jake pointing  a gun at mummy. This gun was not empty this day. it was fully loaded the day before . Dad had always been a care free type with the mindset of it would never get to that, Of course Jake had no idea what that might mean but it all began with a strong desire to bring what he viewed from a television box to live.

I remembered when still in secondary (high) school, one of my juniors in school had developed the habit of walk talk like a cartoon. Back then I thought it was a weakness from childhood, not until he was in a debate with a classmate on who loves cartoon best. He thus spoke ‘’ I have so great undying love for cartoon, whenever am at home I tuned to the cartoon stations, barely do any other movie interfere’’. You can see why he now behaves like one. 

(III)Friends and Colleagues :                                                                                                                                                              

Your friends or whom you associate with can be priceless. Mama’s elder sister gave me a perfect  illustration. She said ‘’my son, I do not know how to converse fluently in English but the People I mingled with brushed up my vocabulary’’. When you hear her speak you would think she went through the four walls of higher learning.

Friends determine personality. If ye hang out with a mediocre ye are one or would become one. ‘’show me thy friend and I can tell whom thou art or whom thou will become’’.

‘’ A wise man in the midst of seven fools, would be the number eight fool, a foolish man in the midst of seven wise men is the number eight wise man. It is practical, in life, schools or colleges.                                                                                          

Let’s use this instance                                                                                   

 Johnny is a foolish boy, he sat in the number fifth  position of ten intelligent people, if you test the capabilities of the first four you may be convinced, and just assume the remaining are just as wise as the first four including Johnny the foolish boy. That is how influential friends can be. 

you do not expect to be optimistic when all the people you mingle with are all pessimistic individuals.

(IV)  Environment :

 The environment we live in is another influencing factor that determine whom you become. though sometimes not always so, through determination , focus and hard work you can defeat your environment. but rarely do people overcome their environment except through some external stimuli.                                                                                                                                                                            

(V)Continuous Affirmation :

 When you develop the habit of Positive confession in any circumstance, that habit grows gradually until it becomes a lifestyle. when it becomes a lifestyle you will just notice you just stick to Positivity all the time. at this point the positive mindset occurs by default, you do not struggle to think Positivity because it has become a part and parcel of you.
5-reasons-people-prefer-male-child-to-female.